21 Simple Advices

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.

FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN! When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY- ONE. Spend some time alone.

-ASHISH SHRIVASTAVA (INDORE )
- LoveNismi ( Ansh Rav)

kale hai to kya hua....

एक काला आदमी

बहुत ही काला

काला स्याह

सुपर काला

जैड ब्लैक

डबल अफ्रीकन एल्डर

सन ऑफ अमावस्य

औंधे तवे का ताऊ

पहाडी कौए का पडदादा
कोयल संप्रदाय का दादू

बंगाल का काला जादू

तारकोल जिसके पैरों में भक्ति भाव से पसरता हो,

कोयला जिसका रूप रंग पाने के लिये,

सदियों तक जमीन के नीचे बैठ कर तपस्या करता हो

जिसदिन उस कालानुभाव के दर्शन हुए,

जमीन थमी रह गयी अब इससे ज्यादा क्या कहुँ,

इतना कहने के बाद भी,

मेरे पास शब्दों की कमी रह गयी

शादी होते ही माँ-बाप को धक्के देकर बाहर निकाल देने वाली औलाद सा कपूत,

कुल मिला कर इतना काला जितनी किसी भ्रष्ट नेता की करतूत

एक दुकान पर गया

ना शर्म ना हया

बोला - फेयर एण्ड लवली है

दुकानदार ने कहा नहीं

तो कहने लगा -

फेयर-फेयर नैस जैसी कोई और क्रीम सही

दुकानदार बोला वो भी नहीं

तो बोला - कोई और

तो जब इस बार भी गर्दन दुकानदार ने इंकार में हिलाई

तो कहने लगा - Cherry Blossom ही दे दे

कम से कम चमक तो बनी रहेगी भाई..............

- LoveNismi ( Ansh Rav)

Raat tu khatam hone wali hai

Raat Tou Khatam Honey Wali Hai

Kyun Ujala Nazar Nahi Aaya

Likhte Dekha Thah Khuwab Mein

Unko Abtalak Naamabar Nahi Aaya

Chain Aayega Kaise Aaj Ki Shab

Tarey Nikle Qamar Nahi Aaya

Chal Basi MAA Liye Khuli Aankhein

Uska Noor-E-Nazar Nahi Aaya

Mere Mar Ne Pe Aaya Sara Jahan

Jo Thah Ek Ba-khabar Nahi Aaya

Manzilein Kho Chokey Hain Ehle Haram

Neel kya kashghar Nahi Aaya

Yun Tou Patthar Bohat Sey Dekhey Hain

Koi Tumsa Nazar Nahi Aaya

Sham Dhal Ne Lagi Hai Ab Mufti

Subha Ka Bhoola Ghar Nahi Aaya..!!

- Miss Puja Patil
- LoveNismi ( Ansh Rav)

चांदणे माझ्या मनीचे पसरले क्षितिजावरी

चांदणे माझ्या मनीचे पसरले क्षितिजावरी
काजळाचे बोट घे तू लावुनी गालावरी

मन्मनीचे भाव सारे उमलले चेहऱ्यावरी

पाहतो जेव्हा तुला मी गजल उमटे अंतरी

शब्द झाले सप्तरंगी झेप घेण्या अंबरी

सागराशी भेटण्या आतूर झाला हा रवी

भवतीचे तेज सारे वाटते दुनिया नवी

हासता तू सूर ही झंकारले वाऱ्यावरी

मी न माझी राहिले ही नशा जादुभरी

-Miss Puja Patil
-LoveNismi ( Ansh Rav)

Why is it necessary for ordinary Muslims to speak up?

Eid Mubarak!

Why is it necessary for ordinary Muslims to speak up?

Every Muslim is as much a citizen of India as anyone else and definitely does not have to defend either the Muslim community in India or Islam.

Nevertheless, it is important to make people of other communities realize that Muslims too are angry a) about terrorists spoiling the image of Islam, and b) as well as maybe somehow conveying that there is some Muslim sympathy (not support) for their attacks.

So when an ordinary Muslim citizen does not speak up:

1. It increases the perception gap and emotional distance between them and other communities

2. It does not strengthen the Government's resolve to take suitable action against terrorist networks, both internally and internationally

3. It does not convey clearly and unequivocally to Muslims in other countries that Muslims in India are proud of being Indians, of living in India and of India itself, as one of the most secular countries in the world, not withstanding lots of problems, including inter-community problems.

There is clearly a lack of leadership today in India, and I feel that it is the ordinary Muslim who can spur the creation of a new leadership for the country by uniting the country even more strongly, by expressing this view and by showing that we are all one and the same Indian.

Furthermore, I would be interested in also hearing what the ordinary Pakistani has to say.

I am absolutely not interested in hearing the opinions of religious or political or high-profile social leaders, because their opinions are already available. I am also not interested in any quote from the Quran, because it is very clear in my mind that the Quran cannot advocate or support such activity.

For any issue where a group carries out a (negative) action, either by claiming they have done it on behalf of their religion, or it appears that they have done it on behalf of their religion (including Hindus, Christians, etc.), I think it is extremely important for ordinary citizens of that religion to speak out strongly about their own true opinions.

- Ram Niraula

- LoveNismi ( Ansh Rav)